Just Say, I Love You to Those Who are...
Life is beautiful and lovable with the type of people we have around us. We talk about unconditional love, what is that? The way we love GOD?is unconditional love. Loving a person without expecting anything in return. But in today's world, how many people understand this. Probably none. We hurt people, who care for us. We ignore their love. Every morning and every evening this person walks into our life and tells, "I LOVE YOU", "I LOVE YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE AND AS YOU ARE". We never responds back and then one day he moves out of our life.
Here are times in life...
When the person you will love, for the rest of your life, walks into your life.
Sometimes, just sometimes... you hurt that person, you push them away. Not meaning to, But you do. Because you do this...you lose that person they walk away.
At times...you are afraid, to go on, after this. But what choice do you have? All you can do...is hope that one day, if that person really was the one. You will meet again. And if, just by chance...you get that second chance, remember the past, learn from your mistakes, and never let them happen again.
And by doing this...you will find out, that a lifetime of happiness awaits. Just tell those people who are close to you and dear to you, that:
If kisses were water, I'd give you a sea;
You know the greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be ignored.
--- To lose the person you love so much to another, who doesn't care at all.
--- To have someone you care so much so as to throw a party... and not tell you about it.
--- When your favorite person on earth neglects to invite you to his/her important days.
--- To have people think that you don't care.
The greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be forgotten.
--- To be left in the dust after another's great achievement.
--- To never get a call from a friend, just saying "hi".
--- When you show someone your innermost thoughts and they laugh in your face.
--- For friends to always be too busy to console you when you need someone to lift your spirits.
--- When it seems like the only person, who cares about you, is you.
--- Life is full of pain, but does it ever get better?
Will people ever care about each other, and make time for those who are in need? Each of us has a part to play in this great show we call life. Each of us has a duty to mankind to tell our friends we love them. If you do not care about your friends you will not be punished.
You will simply be ignored...forgotten...as you have done to others.
People say true friends must always hold hands, but true friends don't need to hold hands because they know the other hand will always be there. As it has been quoted by one lyrist in a Hindi Song:
"Chaiye jo tumhe poore dil se, milta hai woh mushkil se;
Aiesa jo koi kahin hai; bus wohhi sab se haseen hai;
Us haath ko tum tham lo;
Woh mehraban kal ho na ho"
(If you have some one who loves you, cares for you?he is the best person of your life, hold his hand and don't let it drift away.)
Have a great day and take care of your self.
With a lots of love and affection,
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In my lifetime, I have never witnessed enduring unconditional love from another human being. I do not believe it is physically possible. I think that once we have reached that position of being able to give it, we have already passed over to join with the one that is unconditional love. I believe that this state is only experienced spiritually.
If I Hurt You, Then Im Sorry
This statement has stopped many a war in my house. My oldest two children are two years apart in age and would fight about everything and nothing when they were little. One would anger the other and then deny that it ever happened. One would accidentally harm the other during play and not want to accept responsibility for the other's anger. Seldom did a day pass by that one of them wasn't screaming at the other for some horrible crime. It never failed when I would be brought in to mediate, they'd both claim they were innocent and the other was bad. How many times did one of them try to convince me that the other was lying and just trying to frame them for a crime they didn't commit. What's a parent to do?
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"I attend courses, read books, listen to CD's, yet I am still not living the life I want to and am unhappy with the life I have. How can I have the life I want to have?"
Direct Answers - Column for the week of December 16, 2002
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Being Relatable in Todays World as a Christian
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The Most Famous Line I Never Wrote
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Misery Can Eat You Alive
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A reader asks: "Many times in my life I have let fear rule me and stop me from doing something I wanted to do. Do you have any suggestions for how to handle fear?"
The Road Not Taken
Direct Answers - Column for the week of November 24, 2003
Money or Faith?
I've been to 64-countries, and yes money comes in handy, and goes quickly (and is useful and has its influence), I've had a ton of it at one time or another and an ounce of faith, and I'll take faith any day-why? I'll explain. Anybody who has been in a combated zone, under fire will tell you: '?keep the money, I need faith right now.' In a like manner, when I was in the hospital, had a stroke that paralyzed me, a heart attack also, and bypass surgery, they said I was a Fruitcake. But three days later I got out of bed, and when I did, for three weeks they called me "The miracle of the ward." Even the atheist doctors were spellbound. Money walked away, as faith took over.
Direct Answers - Column for the week of December 30, 2002
You Dont Find All Drunks in the Gutter: The Story of a Functional Alcoholic!
Today, August 22, 2005, I am clean and sober for eight years which simply means today I am still an alcoholic and on this day I will choose not to pick up a drink. If you look at me today and compared my appearance to eight years ago you probably would not notice much difference (with the exception of a few more wrinkles). Back then I had a pretty high-powered job with a good salary and was working towards my master's degree. Today I work as an administrator for a church and I am developing a life and leadership coaching practice. I am not attending school I am teaching at a local college as an adjunct professor. My life is probably just as hectic now as it was eight years ago. So the question is besides not picking up a drink what is the difference between then and now?
The Power of Inner SELF
I am sharing one of the great insights.The fear that we have about venturing into anything new is our past memories and darkness. There is a way out to walk in the darkness. It's to seek active guidance from within and trust deeply that we are guided from within. The intensity and accuracy of the guidance dependence on our contact with inner teacher/leader/light. In fact the fear is nothing but fear of being alone. Some day, we deeply and experientially understand that we are not alone but intimately and moment to moment guided by the inner teacher. Seek to be guided and your trust will never be faltered, you got to remove the thought that you are alone.
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