The Power of Inner Dialogue

Are you aware of your inner dialogue? If not, you canbe aware of it at this moment. Just get quiet and listen,there is a voice inside you that is constantly talkingto you all the time.

If you have ignored the power of this little voice,you have been missing a great tool for developingyour personal power.

Your inner dialogue can be good or bad.If you have a positive thinking habit, your innerdialogue most likely is positive, and you will bevery fortunate to enjoy the joy of positive living.Unfortunately, most people don?ˉt have a positivethinking habit; their inner dialogues are negative.Although they are working hard to improve their situations,they are literally pulling themselves back all the time,and wondering why there seems to be no progress.

How much success and how much fulfillment you getin your life is directly promotional to the qualityof your inner dialogue.

Since the inner dialogues are so important to yourpersonal development, we really need to have a betterunderstanding of the roles it plays.

Our inner dialogue is doing constant judgmentand evaluation.

Whatever we see, hear or sense, our inner dialoguewill give us a judgment of good or bad, right or wrong,based on our past experiences. This is very importantfor our survival. If you see a snake, your inner dialoguewill tell you it is dangerous, if you see a flower,your inner dialogue will tell you it is beautiful.Your inner dialogue plays a role of guardian,protecting you from dangers.

However this inner dialogue is not always helpfulwhen it comes to developing your personal power.Do you have a habit of saying the word "can't". If you do,I suggest you eliminate this word from your language.This may be the most valuable suggestion I can give you.BE CAREFUL when your inner dialogue is telling you that youcan?ˉt do something.

To protect you from danger, your inner dialoguehas the tendency to avoid doing new things.Its intention is good, it is trying to protect you,but at the same time, it gives you too much limitation.In order to grow, you must take new challenges, learn to donew things. Suppose you want to make a million dollarsbut you never did this before, you search the entiredatabase of your past experiences stored in your mind,and could not succeed to find a way. Your inner dialoguewill conclude "You Can't". It will try hard to convinceyou that what it says is true, because it does not wantyou to be in danger. However, in reality you must learnnew skills and new mindset of a millionaire in orderto have the new experience of making a million dollars.You will never find the solution in your old database.

Replace negative inner dialogue with positive ones

Don't take it for granted for whatever your innerdialogue tells you. Think it one step further. Is thatwhat it says really true? Be aware of your negativeinner dialogue, and replace it with positive ones.That is all you have to do to achieve a successfuland more fulfilled life.

Since it is so simple, why isn?ˉt everybody doing it?There is only one reason and that is not everyoneknows what is good and what is not good.This may sound like non-sense, but it is true.The majority of people don't know what is good for themand what is not. When people have a problem, they go outto seek for solutions. They buy books, go to seminars,seek for mentor ships, and hopefully these will solvetheir problems. Unfortunately, these things will neversolve all their problems, unless they...

Change the approach.

Only when they realize that the solution is notoutside of them, but inside of them, they will startto solve their problems. If you forget everythingI talked to you so far, remember this "There is asolution inside you to every one of your problems??You don?ˉt have to go outside to seek for solutions;the solution is already inside you. There is a part of youthat is eternal, which knows answers to all your problems.You only need to get connected to it. Listen to thiseternal part of you and you will never have any problems.This part of you knows what is good for you and whatis not, because it knows how the entire universe works,indeed it is the universe itself.

I don?ˉt want to confuse you by talking too much aboutyour eternal self, or true self, I only want you to knowyou can have access to this huge power of the universe.When you have it, nothing is beyond your reach.

Listen to your true self more and more, you will knowthe right answers more and more. Eventually, you willreplace your negative inner dialogue with positive ones.You don?ˉt have to work hard on this, it happensautomatically once you get into the habit of listeningto your true self.

To help you speed up this process, I would like to sharewith you a technique I learned from Dr Deepak Chopra.

Positive inner dialogue exercise.

Every time you look into a mirror, make eye contact withyour image, and repeat silently the following sentences.

(1). I am totally independent of the good or badopinions of others.

(2). I am beneath no one.

(3) I am fearless in the face of any and all challenges.

These are some of the best inner dialogue you can have.Repeat them often; make them deeply embeddedin your subconscious mind. You will see yourlife change automatically.

Song ChengXiang is the editor "The UltimateSuccess Secrets" Newsletter, and the authorof "Rapid Manifestation" online course.Sign up "The Ultimate Success Secrets" Newsletter andget fresh, original, new articles every week withvarious methods and techniques you can use to rapidlyattract any desires you have, and keep up to dateon hot new self improvement ebooks and programs.Serious Only. http://www.theultimatesecrets.comor click here!