Spice It Up By Talking Dirty in the Bedroom

Have you ever been asked by your partner to talk dirty in bed? Ofcourse you have, almost everybody enjoys a little pillow talk inthe bedroom. The problem is, of course, when your partner asks you to say something dirty, and your mind draws a blank. Or worse, you freeze up; you aren't comfortable saying those things aloud.

Talking dirty is easy, once you get started. The most importantthing to remember is to stay relaxed and natural. If you arefeeling a little nervous about saying anything in the bedroom, aneasy way to start is simply by telling your partner when he doessomething you like. Simply say, "Oh yeah, I like it when youtouch me there." Nothing will fire up your partner like hearingyour voice complimenting him on his moves!

Once you are warmed up, you can start moving on to a little moreadvanced talk. Use whatever words you feel comfortable with, youdon't have to use filthy language. But remember, it is not sexyto use clinical terms. The word vagina, although proper, is notsexy. You do not have to sound like a porn star, but with theproper tone of voice and a few choice words you will drive yourpartner crazy.

If you are ready to drive your partner crazy with some filthytalk in bed, start asking him questions. Try saying somethinglike, "You like it when I touch you there don't you?" Of course,these are rhetorical questions, but of course, your partner willbe too worked up to answer you anyway!

Remember that dirty talk should not be confined to the bedroom;take it out of the bedroom to really kick up your sex life.Whisper in your partner's ear what you plan on doing to him whenyou get home while you are out at a party. Because you are inpublic, and there is nothing that he can do, he will be unable tocontain himself.

You may be a little nervous when you first start to talk dirty in bed, but once you are warmed up, you may not be able to stop yourself! Once you get started, you will not only be turningyour partner on, but you will be firing yourself up as well andyou may not be able to stop!

Carol Norda's specializes in writing about romance and dating as well as other sexually enriching topics not usually found elsewhere. Visit Carol Norda's website, http://www.temptingkiss.com for more information.